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should parents live with their adult children ?  

2012-05-15 19:55:26|  分类: 加油 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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There has been a heated discussion about whether or not parents should live with their adult children. Personally I hold the opinion that parents shouldn't live with their adult children.

To begin with, the children have been adults which means that they are mature enough to handle their own affairs and what they need is just complete freedom to make a decision about the way they live. However, their parents may still take them as children and unintentionally interfere in their affairs which will certainly arouse conflicts especially when the children get married. What is more, people of different age just have different way of living. The young adults enjoy exciting and noisy life and they have infinite energies and passions to abreact whereas their parents prefer to live a quiet ,peaceful and regular life. Last but not least, people of different generations have different views and values. They may have conflict with each other when they live together which will obviously do harm to their relationship.

Consequently it's not tough for us to come to the conclusion that parents shouldn't live with their adult children from what has been discussed above. Nevertheless, living separately doesn't means separate relationship. What we can't ignore is that the parents have sacrificed so much to help their children grow up which is definitely worth their children's accompany. Therefore just live separately but remember to make a frequent call , have a regular visit to them and spend some time on their life and health.


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